It is normal and natural for the innately POSITIVE soul inside your body to be RESPECTFUL, APPRECIATIVE, GENEROUS, LOVING, CARING and WANT TO HELP OTHERS in any way it can, but it is a sign of Earthly Negative pollution/contamination (by the lower entities that rule here) of your soul if you behave in a DISRESPECTFUL, UNGRATEFUL, SELFISH, HATEFUL, UNCARING way - and by your actions you HINDER or HARM others (instead of helping them)...examine yourself and your actions, and be aware of your lower EGO (which is NOT holy and exists only to lead your higher soul astray) - it is a neurologically generated quasi-biological phenomenon that comes with the physical body/vessel which every soul must learn to master and subdue (if the soul does not rule the bodies physical passions/lusts - they will end up ruling your soul instead - and you will exist as a seeker of physical pleasures with no sense of shame or self-worth/dignity!)...or like a wild horse it will take you off on a dangerous ride that you will not be able to control - merely be the captive passenger on (to the detriment of many other souls).
Then ask yourself - what have I THOUGHT today that was positive? What have I SAID today that was positive? What have I DONE today that was positive? Then make a conscious effort to START doing those things more and more frequently.
If your life is unhappy...EGO deceives you into believing that EVERYONE ELSE is to blame for your unhappiness - except you...but SOUL reveals that you are often EMITTING (via your own thoughts, words and deeds) and therefore ATTRACTING the storm clouds of negativity that surround you so much.